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For '''women''', hitchhiking seems to be more risky. Hitchhiking as a woman can be easier though. Often, women stop for other women or girls. Even families (or other usual-not-hitch-hiker-friendly car owners) stop to "save" women from a situation in which they think she could be in "danger". Do not forget that being a woman you are firstly a human being and you have the same rights than as males.You have a right to be respected and it is not true that while hitchhiking you expose yourself for to a risk on at your own wish. == Safety tips for female hitchhikers ==Whatever statistics are concerning violence to women (though when it comes to hitchhiking, they're low --the German Bundeskriminalamt (Federal Police) estimates the chance of a failed attempt at rape at 1-2 out of 10.000 and the chance of a "successful" rape at 1 out of 10.000 lifts), there are some things you can do in order to avoid/go out from difficult situations === Choose your driver ===There are many different ways to get a ride from staying on the side of the road to asking directly to people at [[petrol station hitchhiking|petrol stations]]. It could be better to ask people because you can then have a feeling of who is driving. It is of course difficult to know what kind of person someone could be just from how they look, but that first contact may compel you to avoid guys who already have macho or strange behavior towards you.If you want to or have to stay on the edge of the road, your attitude will of course attract different people. The 'positive attitude' thing is important but be aware of what you may suggest when standing and smiling. Body language is really important. I have a friend who almost got raped when hitchhiking in Europe for the first time. I hitched with her a few months later and understood then how this may have happened. She was standing on a half highway road without sign indicating her direction and with a huge smile, a slightly denuded t-----------shirt and a suggestive attitude. I am not saying we should all wear burka when hitchhiking, some people also use their charm and flirt a little bit with people without any problems. It is just a matter of being aware of how we do it.
Also the car sometimes tells about the owner. I am personally more careful when asking. For example, I flatly turned down a car with a big sound installation and loud music since this can show that the driver gives a lot of importance (and money) into appearance, and probably likes to be seen and to impress. It is not rare that their car is also a tool to flirt and impress girls. This is just an example and there is of course no generality. I have often met really nice people, which at first glance I wouldn't think of as sympathetic. Just follow your feeling and ''women'don't hesitate to refuse a ride if you don't feel like it'''! [[User:Marymary|Marymary]] ([[User talk:Marymary|talk]]) 21:54, hitchhiking seems 19 June 2014 (CEST) says: I didn't write the above, but I'll chime in with my advice: truck drivers seem to be really held accountable with where they are, and they have to regularly get various parts of the truck maintained and pass through checkpoints. And trucks are heavy, so if a guy wanted to murder you he'd have to pull over in the middle of nowhere. In general I feel extremely safe with truckers and hitch from truck stop to truck stop only. They are all given money for food and showers from their companies, and are generally very generous and gentlemanly. I would advise this over getting in cars with random guys. I did meet some skeezy truckers who could have been dangerous, but using common sense (that is, don't engage anyone who makes you feel weird) avoided problems. And don't get in a vehicle with more riskythan one guy; that's asking for trouble. Hitchhiking as a woman I work in the adult industry and even we don't allow ourselves to be alone with more than one guy if we can help it because it's too dangerous. Some people will do all kinds of messed up stuff if they're high on bro spirit (see: A Clockwork Orange). Don't do it. === Listen to your yourself / set up some [[hitchhiker's safety|safety]] rules ==='''Set up some rules for yourself''' before begining to hitch hike. I personally have this one that if I happen to think/feel something is strange with somebody, I refuse the ride or ask to be easier thoughdropped as soon as possible, even in the middle of nowhere. Often, women stop This is also valid for other women your security whith some drivers driving like crazy or really fast because they usually do so or girlsbecause they want to show you how fast their Audi TT is. Even families It may be better to spend an extra night in the middle of nowhere (which can actually be really nice) than being raped or other usual-not-hitch-hiker-friendly smashed in a car owners) stop accident. === Protect yourself === There are two main ways to protect yourself: Prevention and action. Prevention means taking steps to "save" women from avoid being in a bad situation in which they think she could be the first place, i.e. steps you ALWAYS take while on the road. Action means defending yourself if your prevention fails and you end up in "danger"a bad situation: you have to take action to save yourself. --------------==== Prevention ====
===Listen to your yourself / set up some [[safety]] rules= Action ===='''Set up some rules for yourself''' before begining to hitch hike. I personnaly have this one that if I happen to think/feel something is strange with somebody, I refuse the ride or ask to be dropped as soon as possible, even in the middle of nowhere. This is also valid for your security whith some drivers driving like crazy or really fast because they usually do so or because they want to show you how fast is their Audy TT. It may be better to spend an extra night in the middle of nowhere (which can actually be really nice) than begin raped or smashed in a car accident.
* Knife: keep it on your body and accessible, but hidden. A belt or bra-strap are good locations. It may be enough to dissuade your aggressor, but beware that if you don't know how to use it, it may end up being taken and used against you (this is far too common).
* There are [[pepper spray]]s you can find in some specialized shops, thought difficult to use in closed spaces. Take care, in some countries it is illegal to use pepper spray against people (or to use it at all).
* Remember that as the passenger, you ultimately have a lot of control - after all, the driver has to drive. If you have asked the driver to stop and he refuses, or becomes aggressive, be ready to take action. Know where the door handle,lock and window mechanism are (in some vehicles this may be more complicated than one would think). Opening the door while the car is in motion will draw attention, but remember at high speeds this is difficult due to wind resistance. Flailing your arms out the window also draws attention. Pulling the parking break can be the best resort at high speeds. Hopefully he be forced to slow down enough for you to [http://www.wikihow.com/Jump-from-a-Moving-Car jump out]. <p>Pulling out an ignition key and holding outside open window in a moving vehicle can be very effective if successful - guessing which car design allows that is quite hard. ('''Note''': It can also engage the steering lock and disable the power steering and/or power brakes and as such may do more harm than good! [[User:Prino|Prino]] ([[User talk:Prino|talk]]) 10:14, 23 July 2013 (CEST))
We all hope to never be in a situation where such extreme actions are needed, but if such a situation arises, resolve and confidence in your chosen course of action is key.
== Further reading ==* '''You can find a specific guide about women hitchhiking at [http://girls.hitchbase.com / girls.hitchbase.com]!'''* A scientific article about [http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/20178293 Hitchhiking women's hair color]* [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZnUBD18tMXM Anick-Marie Bouchard - Women travelling alone - Part I], [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ys7bi7KGl_A II], [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G73vEAQCnMQ III].* [http://youarealltourists.blogspot.fr/2008/04/hitchhiking-guide-to-turkey-for-girls.html Safety Hitchhiking Guide to Turkey (for Girls)]* [http://youarealltourists.blogspot.fr/search/label/female%20solo%20travel Stories about female solo hitchhiking blended with feminist theory] * [https://www.facebook.com/groups/807483619304081/ Facebook group: Feminist Explorers (feminism for travellers, nomads, and backpackers)]* [[:File:Hitchhiking - Neo-nomad.pdf|Hitchhiking - How-to zine written by a woman]]* [https://www.facebook.com/groups/hitchgathering/permalink/1080094235337475/ Discussion on FB group "Hitchgathering" about women and long distance hitching]* [https://www.facebook.com/groups/hitchgathering/permalink/1732747433405482/ Discussion on FB group "Hitchgathering" about women hitchhiking] * [http://endlesscreatures.blogspot.com/2015/06/highway-kingdom-why-yes.html Tips for solo women hitchhiking]* [http://youarealltourists.blogspot.de/2015/08/hitching-tips-for-women.html Hitching tips for women] by ''The Tourist Of Soft-Porn, Sheikhs and Dunes''* [http://https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RxfCLJZtboY YouTube guide sharing practical tips on how to hitchhike safely as a girl]
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